SEX & RELATIONSHIP- Erotic Self Focus in Men

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Many sex researchers and  other observers, shows that women usually have  negative feelings about their  body  and can can have a disastrous effect on their erotic turn-on.

That basically the same women ’ having positive feelings about their body might be a principle source of her or their turn-on.  This phenomenon brings the discussion on , “Erotic Self-Focus,”

According to Stephen Synder, a Managing Director Blog on Sex and relationship therapist, on chapter 7, entitled, Love Worth Making, The Woman in the Mirror.” the whole content is all about erotic self-focus.

He further explains on , “Women’s Sexual Desire, and Why Men Often Don’t Recognize It” , Stephen argues that the  common strategy used by heterosexual women to enhance their erotic self-focus, which typically backfires because their partners have no idea what’s going on especially on how they feel sexually.

 

In 2014 he explains how it  happened to be interviewed by Anna Davies in Men’s Health on the subject of “women’s hottest sex fantasies and following the feat discussions he realized that  a key element of many heterosexual women’s erotic fantasies was that a man would be driven near-crazy with desire for her especially when  she was just so extraordinarily sexy.

 

Another Sex researcher and computational neuroscientist Ogi Ogas referred to this as a “self-directed erotic cue” that means a sexual signal not based on anything about one’s partner, but rather on something about oneself.  Ogas called it “The Irresistibility Cue.” In other words, “erotic self-focus”,.

 

Based on eroticism discussions, one should ask himself the following in  relation to what turns you on.

“Is it arousing for you to imagine stripping in front of many members of the opposite sex?”

“Would you want to have sex with yourself or someone else?

“Does looking at yourself in the mirror in your under wears help get you in the mood for sex?”

I think it would all  be a “Yes”,

 

 

 

Men often seemed not to know what to do with questions like, “Would you want to have sex with yourself?” But a lot of women understood the question immediately, and replied that they’d very much like to, because they easily get turned on as women are always perceived as weak creatures and easily get turned on.

So it’s basically expected that men should always be extremely sexually active to their partner ,just being erotic this turns their women on ,since a women wouldn’t be pleased by a man who’s is not  sexually driven or focused  and sometimes its preferably nice to read sexopedia books especially for couples.

 

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