We’ve shared parenting tips for some time now and today we will be looking at good parenting especially where teens are involved. I believe whatever I share with you on parenting teens will be very useful.
Parenting is one of the greatest challenges probably in the entire history of the planet, but one question I want to ask you is; what is your job as a parent?
Personally I think your job as a parent can be summarized into one word and that is to love them no matter what
One aspect of parenting is to understand your teenage child. It is only when you understand them that you’ll be able to control them.
We’ve all heard horror stories of the teenage years. Parenting with teens can be challenging. There is a good mix of love, control, discipline, and consulting, but how do you know what to do when?
As teens move toward greater independence, they often rebel and resist parental rules. This requires parents to adjust some of their tried-and-true approaches that may have been effective when their kids were younger.
Changing some rules and giving more privileges as teens show better judgment are ways you can help them to slowly gain maturity.
During adolescence, they show dramatic change in behavior around their parents. They’re starting to separate from mom and dad and become more independent. At the same time, kids this age are increasingly aware of how others, especially their peers, see them and are desperately trying to fit in. Their peers often become much more important than parents as far as making decisions
- Educate yourself by reading and doing research and its only then that you’ll know what’s coming
- Talk to kids early and often because the earlier you open the lines of communication, the better your chances of keeping them open through the teen years
- Save your objections for things that really matter, like drugs and alcohol, or permanent changes to their appearance and not things like nail polish or make up during holidays
- To help your teen become a young adult, you’ll need to grant some privacy. If you notice warning signs of trouble, then you can invade your child’s privacy until you get to the heart of the problem. Otherwise, it’s a good idea to give them some privacy
- Teens needs to begin charting their own goals now, with the support of parents don’t expect your child to achieve goals you decide for them
You may not be at the top of your teen’s list nowadays, but work like the dickens to stay close, and don’t take it for granted that your child will now push you away. That’s a sign of a damaged relationship. Don’t give up. It’s never too late in your relationship with your child to do repair work and move closer.
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